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Keep those nice biceps or great legs to yourself

by Penelope4

I have written a tip that women should wear shawls/cover their head and chest. I also meant cover your arms and legs. Please, skirts which do not meet the ankle are a big no-no in Afghanistan. Afghan women wear long sleeves in spite of the high temperature. Wearing skirts and sleeveless will mean disrespecting the Afghan culture. They may just stare at you and say nothing if you wear unacceptable clothings but deep inside, they will be totally angry at you.At weddings or engagement parties, women are separated from men and there, women can wear sleeveless (I haven't seen one with short skirts though).

Please respect Ramadan

by Penelope4

In Afghanistan, Ramadan is observed seriously. If you are told that the Afghans are observing Ramadan at the time of your visit, please no matter what, do not drink water, chew a gum, eat anything in front of them or listen to your iPOD or MP3. The Afghans refrain from listening to music, eating and drinking water during daytime. In 2009, Ramadan is scheduled around end of August. Just inquire before flying to Afghanistan in August. It will be a grave offence if you eat or drink in front of the Afghans during Ramadan.

Long greetings - don't interrupt them

by Penelope4

You have to know that Afghans have closely-knit families and friends. When you are with your tour guide or with a friend and an acquaintance of the latter comes along, they will greet each other and will be asking "how are you?", "how's your health?". "how's your family?" at the same time and the conversation will go on and on. Please, do not interrupt them, wait for your turn to be introduced and don't introduce yourself. It's their practice to ask each other and hug and kiss each other on the cheeks. Observe and respect the culture. It's entirely different from yours and they do not mean to be rude.

Covering of head and chest

by Penelope4

Foreign female visitors are expected to wear shawls to cover their head and chest. Afghanistan is a Moslem country where most of its women still wear burqas. Women are not expected to shake hands with men and as female, expect to be ignored while men do their introductory greetings (which involves shaking of hand and kissing the cheeks and hugging a bit). It is normal for Afghan men to hold hands while walking. Don't raise your eyebrows, even Afghan policemen do that. It is their custom and we have to respect it whilst there.

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A few safe "Do"s and "Do Not"s

by Jacquelynn

Despite the history of conflict, this country has so many friendly and hospitable people. They firmly believe that Allah controls everything and that anything that happens is according to His will. Afghans are loyal to their family and stress honor and responsibility.The talking distance is considered to be close by some standards, but don't pull away. Male friends are often seen walking arm in arm or holding hands.Do:Greet with the arabic: Assalaam alaikum (Peace be upon you)Respond to greetings with: Waalaikum assalaam (and peace also upon you)Address others by title when possible. "Mullah" religious leader (giver of knowledge) or "Khan" (Sir). "Haji" is for only those who have made the pilgrimiage to Mecca, Saudi Arabia.Remove footwear for prayersPoint with your whole hand rather than one fingerUse a handshake and a pat on the back when greeting male friends.Women: embrace female...

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Time and gifts

by Jacquelynn

In Afghanistan, there is a very different sense of time. How long it takes to accomplish a task is not as important as long as it does get accomplished. Afhgans sometimes arrive "late" by others standards. When conducting business, it is essential that you meet in person and have much patience in your negotiations.Regarding gifts, you should recriprocate any gifts that you receive. Much appreciated would be gifts from your hometown. It would be risky to accept food or water from the locals, (see warnings) though I did once accept a cup of chai (actually dari for "tea") and it was the best that I had ever tasted. Didn't get the least bit sick. But be wary.It can also be dangerous to accept cigarettes from locals. Don't risk it.

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Standards of Dress

by Jacquelynn

Women: In Kabul, there were some women wearing blue burkhas, but there were also many women wearing more contempary clothing/scarves which is becoming popular. Under the Tablian rule, women were rarely seen and when going out, they were covered from head to toe. It seems to be more conservative the farther away you are from Kabul.Men: While 99% of Afghans are Muslims, in Kabul there are many men who are clean shaven. Men tend to wear a long shirt over baggy pants, tied with a string. They can ben seen wearing the male version of the scarves and also flat wool caps.The Pastuns mainly wear the head turbans in grey or black.

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Key Phrases - Language - Dari and Pashto

by Jacquelynn

Dari is spoken most widely in Kabul (an urban language / similar to Farsi and Tajik) but Pashto is also used. There are over 30 languages/dialects used in Afghanistan, but most educated Aghans can speak both Dari and Pashto. Writing is right to left.Here are a few key phrases in Dari which would be helpful to know:Hello/Good morning/afternoon/evening etc.. Salaam alaikumResponse: Wa alaikum salaamDo you speak english? Te pe engleesi khabara kawei?My name is_______: Naam-a man _______What is your name? Naam-a shuma chee ast?How are you? Che-toar has-ti?I am fine: Man khob hastamGoodbye: Kho-do hafazYes/No: B'e lee/Na0 - sefer1 - yak2 - du3 - she4 - chor5 - panj6 - shish7 - khaft8 - khasht9 - nukh10 - dakh

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multi national country

by Kanjoo

Afghanistan is a mutli-national country so there culture varies from place to place. Kabul nowadays is controled and ifluenced by persians however little bit of pashtoons also still there. over all attitude is little bit like iran. mazar sharif is controled by uzbeks and shiites, and one cant observe the true face of society if they find you a pakistani.

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Men - grow a beard

by Badger23

From my understanding, you are considered "less than straight" if you are male and don't have facial hair. Well, of course I couldn't have people thinking that, so I went ahead and made sure I jumped on that bandwagon.

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Q:  I was thinking about working in a postal facility in Afghanistan and wanted to know the actual dangers that one may encounter in... 

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A: I suggest you go to the Afghanistan Forum and read the replies to the two posts before yours, especially those from afghanguy and basrah. 

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