Lower Your Glass When Toasting
by crewrower
In Chinese culture, when toasting beer or wine glasses together, it is polite to make sure that your glass is lower than the person's who you are toasting. I suppose this to show modesty. I have to say that I have not always noticed this way of toasting taking place in Beijing or Shanghai, and it probably does not occur among good friends. However, in Yunnan, I did notice this when drinking with my hosts. My British friend, unaware of this toasting practice, was nearly missing the glass of the host when they toasted (the Brit raised and the Chinese lowered, their cups only making contact by about 2cm!). After pointing out this out to my friend, we all adjusted, to the point that toasts were so low the bottoms of our glasses were almost hitting the table! This is a nice thing to remember when you are having dinner with Chinese hosts. It definitely applies in Yunnan!