It's good manners when visiting people to bring some sort of gift, such as flowers or chocolates, especially if you've been invited for a meal. Money is generally not appropriate (and indeed would be an insult), but there are times when you are supposed to give money - weddings, funerals and the Chinese Lunar New Year. The money should be given in a red envelope. The equivalent of the hongbao, or red package containing money given at the time of the Chinese spring festival, is called laisee in Hong Kong.
To complicate matters further, a Chinese person with good manners is supposed to refuse (at least once, maybe twice) any gift you offer. You are supposed to insist. They will then 'reluctantly' accept. To accept a gift too readily is considered greedy and will cause the recipient to lose face. This makes it really hard to know if the person is trying to refuse the gift because they don't want it.
There are different levels of respect shown in bowing. For normal circumstances, such as paying respect to ancestors, three bows standing up or on the knees followed by three bows (kowtow) are used. Kowtow is kneeling down and bowing till the head touches the ground. Bowing is done after joss sticks and paper tokens have been set alight and presented.
On occasions where great respect needs to be shown (i.e. paying homage to a god), "three kneels and nine bows", are called for. The person goes down on their knees in front of the altar, and completes three kowtows, then advances a step forward on their knees to complete another three kowtows followed by the final step forward to complete the last set of three kowtows.
While I was staying at the Conrad I was surprised to receive a birthday card signed by then entire executive level staff as well as a piece of tiramisu. Thank you to you all.
PS. I wish you made the bears like in the card. :-))
Thousands upon thousands of Chinese lived on board their boats, working and raising children and carrying on with their daily lives, doing their washing, cooking, shopping and everything they needed to do, aboard their home. We had the privilege to sail in one of these sampans, where 4 little boys played while their mum skilfully navigated the boat to our destination.
Sadly a Custom no more since the 1997 handover to the PRC, was the firing of the Noon Day Gun.
Started originally as a signal by the trading house Jardine Matheson (one of the oldest trading companies in HK and still in existance today) to welcome home their ships.
After a dissagreement with the then Govenor of HK they were made to fire the cannon at noon every day.
Located near the Excelsior Hotel.
We chanced upon a wedding couple while we were having a go at the swings in a quiet neighbourhood playground in Tai O village on Lantau Island.
As is typical of a Chinese wedding, the bride is dressed a in bright red gown (red is an auspicious colour to bring good fortune and happiness), while the groom is wearing a western-style suit. One of the bridesmaids carry a red umbrella with which to shield the bride.
The wedding party arrives at the groom's parent's home in a procession of bridal cars (decorated with ribbons) carrying the bridesmaids, the groomsmen and the photographer and videographer. In certain cases, the bride's parents come along too. They bear a variety of gifts, most likely including a fruit basket and a roasted piglet.
The Kuan Yin statue at Repulse Bay, has to be one of the most photographed statues of all the statues at Repulse Bay. Kuan Yin is most widely known as the Goddess of Mercy in China, and ussually depicted as a beautiful white robed woman. You can find her statue at many harbours throughout China, for fisherman often pray to her.
We saw a very funny thing in Hong Kong...the bamboo scaffolding... To me it doesn't look very safe but I'm sure it is... :)
I still think you should be a little careful when walking near by...keep an eye on what's going on up above...those bamboo sticks could be very dangerous!
You might come across "Yum Cha" this term in many books or foreign visitors.
Yum = Drink
Cha = Tea
In the place where we Yum Cha, they have dim sum provided. I will recommend you try once at least in Hong Kong, at resturant like Maxim.
But it is not true that we have to Yum Cha everyday as breakfast. Those who can afford to Yum Cha daily are elderly people or retired people. And most Hong Kong (younger generation) will prefer sleep till noon on weekends, then the Yum Cha time will pass.
I think I only Yum Cha once per month or two months. I don't like line up for table for 45 minutes.
One of the worst things for Asians to happen is loosing face in front of other people.
Therefore, always try to keep attitude and smiling. Don't try to force your opinion onto someone.
People are also much more polite and at your service if you treat them with respect and you might find it easier to get what you were looking for at the end!!!
Hong Kong is an incredibly crowded place. I could not get over how many people packed the sidewalks at all hours of the day. It was not oppressive (like the heat), but it was something I was conscious of daily.
A day spent in Hong Kong is a lifetime spent anywhere else in the world. There is so much to see and do in Hong Kong and there are numerous tours that offer a wide variety of sightseeing and shopping experiences to suit everyone. The question is not what is there but what do you feel like?
An adventure to remote islands with century-old Chinese traditions, a breathtaking hike over rolling green hills to stunning white beaches, a trek to charming Chinese fishing villages or a fascinating city tour of art, history and modern museums.
As you can see from the picture, Hong Kong is a busy place where space is at a premium. Houses and hotel rooms are small and streets are crowded. However, for all its hustle and bustle, Hong Kong has a wonderfully organised feel to it!
One of the most unusual things I noticed while in Hong Kong were the throngs of locals out all day just sitting in the shade and eating, talking or playing games. Some areas such as the Kowloon waterfront, the Ferry terminal at Central, and Statue Square had hundreds if not thousands of people lined up in every square inch of shade along the buildings and fences. They almost looked like homeless refugees...
I don't think there are too many people who haven't by now heard of Jackie Chan. Of course in Asia he has been around forever but only more popular in the USA and other parts of the world the past few years.
Jackie had an office within our studios when I worked in Hong Kong and he joined the staff for lunch on Christmas Eve one year that I was working there. Seen here with Raymond Chow (Well known HK Film Producer who also produced the Bruce Lee movies) and our secretary Rosalie.
Later that afternoon, I was leaving the studios well after everyone else, walking through the car park when a car pulled up beside me. It was Jackie, offering me a lift into town. Well, how can you refuse - certainly beats taking the train and although I had not intended to go into town, I soon changed my mind. After all it was Christmas Eve… why go home.
He is the most charming person, sang the Chinese version of 'Santa Claus is Coming to Town' to me (it was a version relating to Jiang Zemin and the handover of Hong Kong). When we reached town, he gave me a kiss on both cheeks and wished me a merry Christmas. The girls in the office were beside themselves when I told them after Christmas. He's a sweetie in my books.
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8 Pak Hok Ting Street, Shatin, Hong Kong, China
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