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KARAOKE

by davidjo

Locals love singing, as they seem to do in most S.E.A. countries, but here everybody learns to sing as soon as they know how to talk. In fact many Filipino singers are very good and you will find Filipino entertainers in Thailand, Japan, Hong Kong, to name a few. At Filipino parties, after a few drinks the Karaoke and the Microphone comes out and they will take turns singing, and all will enjoy the festivities that may not end until the early hours of the morning. Be careful when selecting your accommodation, make sure there is no Karaoke bar downstairs or next door as they will play the music at the highest volume, it even can be heard 100's of metres away.

DIVORCE

by davidjo

Divorce, no such thing in the Philippines!!! or is there? There is an annulment if you can afford it! Divorce in Western countries now can cost the equivalent of the salary for a morning's work if both parties agree, but here the cost could be in the region of 100,000 pesos, more than a year's salary to some, so most people just don't bother! Many teenagers find themselves pregnant but find true love some years later, change partners and settle down to spend the rest of their life in bliss.

DEATH

by davidjo

When someone dies here the person is displayed in the coffin either at the funeral home or their own home for 6 or 7 days before burial. This is not such a sad event but a reason to come pay your respects and sit all night long with food being offered, card games and drinking. Most families will spend a fortune entertaining the mourners by offering food and drink, and once the burial is over quite often the mourners are invited to eat again, sometimes a whole roast pig. On the day of the funeral the hearse will pick up the deceased, and the whole procession of mourners will drive slowly to the cemetery. On the front of the hearse will be a large poster of the deceased while the deceased favourite music blares out from the vehicle. Recently one guy passed away and heavy rock music was accompanying him on his last journey.

FAMILY

by davidjo

The most important things for a Filipino is the family who stick together when a crisis looms. The families help each other out, especially when trying to get someone educated when two or three brothers will work to support a younger daughter or brother to gain an education with the hope that they will graduate in to a good profession and be able to help support the family members, because without an education there is not much hope in escaping the poverty that so man people find themselves in. Should one of the family be a doctor or lawyer it is common that family members will repeatedly ask for financial help and usually get it. More importantly should a family member find himself in trouble with the neighbourhood or the police, the whole family will stick together to support him whether he is right or wrong. The family members may argue amongst themselves now and again but if you...

COCKFIGHTING

by davidjo

Cockfighting is to the Filipinos as what baseball is to the Americans and every sunday local men will flock to their local cockpit to gamble away their salary. In each village you will see men holding their cocks with care and stroking them (ha ha), spending their hard earned money on the best feed, hoping one day that they will have produced a champion. Good cocks exchange hands for 1000's of $s. Each cock will have a 3 inch blade attached to one of their feet, and are shown to the spectators before the fight, who have a chance to make bets by signalling to others in the arena. Then the fight will begin, usually the owners have to encourage their cocks to fight, then a flurry of activity will last for a few seconds or a little longer until one cock drops to the ground. He will quickly be inspected for injuries and possibly stitched back together again while the other one heads for the...

DWENDE

by davidjo

I first found out about the "dwende" when i instructed my workers to dig holes for my concrete fence posts, but upon returning the next day all the posts had been erected in a perfect neat line except for one. Where the post was meant to be was a termite hill 3 feet high, and upon questioning my workers as to why they never removed the termite hill, this reply was given. Sir, a dwende lives in the termite hill, it's his home. What's a dwende i asked my wife. Well i learnt that a dwende was a small elf pixie like creature that makes its home in termite hills, rocks, old trees and caves. The workers didn't want to upset the dwende and refused to demolish its home so to their surprise and horror i proceeded to destroy the termite hill myself. So be careful not to upset the dwendes while you are in the Philippines.

ASWANG

by davidjo

Locals believe in "aswang", a mythical, evil creature with vampire like qualities that flies during the night often stealing young children and sucking their blood. Also the Aswang can smell the dead and eats their livers. Mothers control their children by frightening them, saying the aswang will come and get you. Aswang are blamed for miscarriages and any unexplained or unusual bad thing that may happen.

RESPECT FOR ELDERS

by davidjo

When a younger person, especially a child, meets an older person they hold their hand out towards the older persons forehead as a sign of respect. Also younger people address older people, especially members of the family they address the female as Manang and the male as Kuyo, also as a mark of respect.

avoid shouting

by davidjo

If you get angry with a local don't shout, just talk things over quietly and smile while you do it. It is real bad if you go to someone's house to complain (this should never be done on someone else's property) and start shouting and if you do so be prepared for trouble.

invited to eat

by davidjo

Should you call upon a Filipino friend and you arrive when they are eating, they might invite you to join them, but you should politely refuse with the excuse you have just eaten, or you not feeling so good, or you are invited somewhere else later. This is because the locals are just being polite but may not have enough to feed you. Obviously this depends if your friend is wealthy

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Q:  Hi everyone, I have visited the Philippines many times, but never in August. I'm just wondering if it's the typhoon season? If so,... 

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A: Hi Alex!Late August usually is typhoon season, so expect unpredictable weather by that time and hopefully no typhoon. Why not take a direct flight from Manila to Cebu... 

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