Boys will be boys - girls should be careful.
I recently asked an Aluthgama friend if he knew a beach boy who arranged trips for me during my first few visits to the Island. “He has a German wife” I explained. My friend answered “Mark – all Aluthgama beach boys have at least one German wife and usually a Sri Lankan one as well”. This tip may appear a little obvious but having read some heart rending tales in several travel forums it seems reasonable to warn women visitors to Sri Lanka about the dangers of predatory males. Of course it happens in every country on earth but the Sinhalese can be particularly charming people, Sri Lanka is a relatively modern country and the people well educated so tourists will find less of the cultural barriers that exist in some ‘exotic’ locations, it’s very easy to make friends with the local people and like anywhere not everyone is full of good intentions.Sex before marriage still isn’t the norm in...









