We, Ukrainian aducators, were all pleasantly surprised by the friendliness of people in the US cities.
The people in the US may smile to you or even say "Hello" or "How are you", which does not necessarily mean these people are attempting to establish any meaningful contact. It's just a US version of politeness and not an overture to friendship.
Besides, one "hello" during the day is sometimes not enough and very often when acquaintances encounter one another again during the day, they will greet each other again. While there may be too many hellos in a day, the goodbyes are often too few.
Visitors should be aware that US acquaintances will often leave the room without saying "excuse me" or "good-bye", which is not considered to be rude at all.
Live and learn!
People in the United States tend to guard their personal space and often feel that those who do not respect it are being offensive, invasive or too intimate.
Whenever possible - when conversing, waiting in line or in public transportation - people stand about two feet apart from each other.
People in the United States do not shake hands as often as we do, only when they are first introduced to someone or when they haven't seen each other for a long time.
A part of your challenge as the visitor of the United States will be to discover and adapt to the local customs.
In the United States people tend to be informal. They may, for instance, address each other by their first names, even in professional settings.
During my internship at school my colleagues and their students called me by my first name as I had asked them to and I called them all (except one colleague who did not tell me his first name) by their first names in return.
People whom you address may say, "My name's so-and-so" or "My friends call me so-and-so" which means you should call this person by his or her first name.
October 31st was the eve of the Celtic new year but sometime in the 800's, November 1st became the Christian All Saints' Day. The evening before was All Hallow's Eve, or Halloween.
In the US, children dress in costumes to "Trick or Treat". Each child gets a treat while the householder tries to guess what the costume represents.
The pumpkin (an orange native American vegetable) is one of the symbols of Halloween. Carving vegetables into jack-o'-lanterns is a Halloween custom also dating back to Ireland.
"A legend grew up about a man named Jack who was so stingy that he was not allowed into heaven when he died, ... He couldn't enter hell either because he had played jokes on the devil... Jack had to walk the earth with his lantern until Judgment Day. The Irish people carved scary faces out of turnips, beets or potatoes representing "Jack of the Lantern," or jack-o'-lantern. When the Irish emigrated to the United States, they carved faces on pumpkins because..they were more plentiful than turnips."
A pumpkin also played a role in Washington Irving's story.
"On mounting a rising ground, which brought the figure of his fellow traveler in relief against the sky, gigantic in height, and muffled in a cloak, Ichabod was horror-struck, on perceiving that (the rider) was headless!--but his horror was still more increased, on observing that the head, which should have rested on (the rider's) shoulders, was carried before him on the pommel of the saddle." -Washington Irving, "The Legend of Sleepy Hollow"
The character Jack Pumpkinhead in Frank Baum's Oz books has a much less scary pumpkin for a head.
I took this picture of a pumpkin with a witch's mask leaning on it when we lived in Key West.
My children used to ride as the headless horseman for Halloween. They wore a cape with the neck on the top of their head, and carried a pumpkin with a flashlight in it on the saddle.
The second picture is my daughter's 1st place for the Scarecrow of Oz costume.
Pumpkins are baked into pies especially at Thanksgiving.
There are thousand of it in whole US. Its amazing take a look on a map and discover how many there are !!! the reality is that all stereotype that we could have before to see what is the real life are wrong.. its quite pitty and sad check where and how they are living nowadays..
This picture belongs to Lower Brule indian reservation in South Dakota. This tribal town are Sioux and i remember now going southwards from Moab (UT) i stop in a road bar to have breakfast and all people were indians, i guess navajo culture.. so you cant see the differences passing by a small road town.
So they are absolutelly assimilate to contemporany american life, fortunatelly they hold his culture thanks to visitor centers like that where i stay beholding handicrafts, elder pictures and some stuff from Sioux culture !!
As posted on the link below:
The Department of Homeland Security (DHS) announces implementation of the Electronic System for Travel Authorization (ESTA), which will begin to accept voluntary ESTA applications starting on August 1, 2008.
ESTA is a new fully automated, electronic system for screening passengers before they begin travel to the United States under the Visa Waiver Program. ESTA applications may be submitted at any time prior to travel to the United States, and VWP travelers are encouraged to apply for authorization as soon as they begin to plan a trip to the United States. It is anticipated that ESTA will become mandatory for VWP travelers on January 12, 2009.
International travelers seeking to travel to the United States without a visa, who are nationals of Visa Waiver Program (VWP) countries, should review this important information on traveler passport requirements under the VWP. All VWP travelers, regardless of age or type of passport used, must present a machine-readable passport. An integrated chip is embedded into your passport.
Currently, 27 countries participate in the Visa Waiver Program:
A Memoranda of Understanding (MOU) were signed with:
These countries are not admitted into the VWP. At the present time, citizens of these countries must continue to require a US Visa for travel to the US.
Check out whether your favourite star has made it or not in Hollywood by visiting the very popular Hollywood WALK of FAME nea rHollywood Boulevard and Vine Street.
It is really just one sidewalk but wait till you see the famous names embedded on the pavement there!
The Walk of Fame is nearly a three and a half (3 1/2) mile round trip walk. Locations of specific stars are permanent, except when occasionally relocated for nearby construction or other reasons. To be awarded a star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame is considered to be as sought after as the Oscars, Emmys, etc.
So we found our own fave stars, even Bruce Lee's name was there!
Each star consists of a pink terrazzo five-pointed star rimmed with bronze and inlaid into a charcoal square. Inside the pink star is the name of the honoree inlaid in bronze, below which is a round bronze emblem indicating the category for which the honoree received the star. The emblems are:(thanks to WIKIPEDIA for these.)
* Motion picture camera for contribution to the film industry
* Television set for contribution to the broadcast television industry
* Phonograph record for contribution to the recording industry
* Radio microphone for contribution to the broadcast radio industry
* Twin comedy/tragedy masks for contribution to live theater
Whatever season, it seems this place is bustling. The sandy beach is not just the spot where people, both local and foreign visitors converge but to do almost everything!
We joined a bus tour of LA including this iconic beach, Beverley Hills, etc and we were not disappointed! Shopping is fun here as there arfe numerous little shops selling just about anything really!
My son was happy with his authentic Converse shoes, which don't seem to go out of fashion. The only problem is, his feet had gone bigger so now, this pair which we got for around $22 (compared to Aussie price of about $70) is now just a souvenir from USA.Clothes, especially souvenir t-shirts are everywhere from the funky to the gothic so you don't have an excuse for forgetting a relative or two.
There are lots of things, people to see, especially the break dancers, muscled men and women showing off their stuff, and many more buskers showing their "talents" hoping to be discovered I suppose!
Food is widely available so you won't go hungry either!
I have been able to use my phone which is a Sony bought in France, I usually buy a sim card in the country i am in and no problem.. it works everywhere.
This is what i do in the USA
I buy a t mobile sim card, and they give you a number and you can keep the number as long as you keep some money in the account, which you can do on line. it is about ten cents per minute within usa to send or receive a call. in the end it works out well. I usually put 100 usd worth on to the card and it lasts me for ever and ever. you also send and text for the similar amount of money. calling abroad is very expensive on this card but receiving is okay charged at the same rate of ten cents a minute. this is much better than signing up for some service which in the usa requires months and years of comittment. unless of course you are going to live here for a year or two. all the best
I am a loyal flier on Continental Airlines and they reward you very well. they give me gifts much more that what i pay in fares all year long. Also you get special treatment when you call the special number they give you, special hellos at the various lounges and clubs.
recently a director of the customer services called me on my usa mobile phone to say thank you for something i had written to them about. and today trying to get to australia to give a lecture: they organized, free of charge,a business class ticket from USA all the way to Cairns and back! and did it very pleasantly over the phone. I am grateful to them and I suppose that is why I am a Platinum Elite member on Continental Airlines.
the best way to start a day !! a lot of bakeries has baggles, circular piece of bread with different tastes like onion, garlic, then you order the ingredients to put into with the sauce and all the vegetables that u want.. its absolutelly delicious. the best i ate was in Monterey, California.. ohh such a delicious breakfast!!
So easy, so common, so weird, all at the same time.. i was impressed how easy is get divorced in US and cheaper by the way..
I met so many young girls (28.29.30 old) divorced and with childrens.. its not common in Spain or you cant see many cases.. US is terrible in that matter
In America, the idea of a holiday with an orgy of gift giving at the end of the calender year seems to be of great popularity. Certainly the merchants love it as they often match the sales of the rest of the time between Thanksgiving and the New Years celebration. Over the years the merchants have succeeded in stretching the buying period. It seems most people complain about this, but there is no way to stop it.
Many Americans celebrate this holiday time with no thought of its Christian (or even pre-Christian origins). This may be partly behind the use of Xmas (said "X"-mas) or this might just be laziness. Other than for the commercial retail and restaurant industries, this has to be a time when business activity decreases because many days are spent on vacation. Schools are out and many businesses including government offices close for some of the days of holiday.
Religious and other public customs surrounding these holidays are quite variable. The mixture comes with the multiple immigrant origins of the population. Since my youth there has been a great restriction of purely religious displays sponsored by government entities or historically allowed to be on government property. This has come from successful court challenges to these practices based on the constitutional article against any governmental establishment of religion.
A visitor should be aware that despite pre-Christmas sales offering low prices, there will be better prices right after Christmas. In fact, it has probqbly become a new part of the tradition to have a second buying frenzy in the week between the Christmas and New Years holiday. The merchants are motivated to clear their shelves before the new year.
With such a short history (just over 200 years as a nation and about 500 years as a people) you might think that it would be easy to write true tips about American customs, but so many of the things I remember being tradition seem to have changed or are changing.
Even the dates of some official holidays are being changed. For example, once we had holidays for each of the birth dates of Washington and Lincoln and now we have just one day for all former presidents. We have a relatively new holiday for Martin Luther King, a great man of peace. On a less offical level we have seen days like Earth Day and National Secretary Day gain popularity.
The practice of some of the holidays has changed like that of "Halloween" (End of October). When I was growing up it seemed that all the children were dressed up in wild costumes and every house gave out treats. Now many parents oppose this holiday because even though some churches call it "all saints day" they feel it honors the "evil devil". So now many houses do not give out treats and are not decorated. (For more on this holiday see the following tip.)
Since we are largely a nation of immigrants the customs of there places of origin are often honored. For example, in New York City and San Francisco there are large Chinese New Years celebrations.
The last Thursday in November is US Thanksgiving. It used to be that everything was closed except hospitals, police, and fire services. Today, there is limited services, but many grocery stores stay open, gas stations and some min-marts.
It's a traditional day for families or good friends to gather for a day of eating (well, preparing the meal), football on TV, parades (live or on TV) and not doing much. It was meant as a tribute to the bounty of the harvest and thanking God for his/her blessings.
Turkey (some families do ham)
bread dressing (cooked in the turkey or separately)
mashed (white) potatos
cranberry sauce (more of a gelatin)
gravy (if you like it) for any and everything
---some families like giblet gravy, cooking the heart, liver, and other organs (chopped) in the gravy.
pumpkin pie (with whipped topping) - seldom is it real whipped cream anymore.
Often accompanied by a nice wine or bubbly grape-juice (for the non-alcoholic drinkers/familes)
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