Capitol Hill, Seattle
This is a very hip venue that was named by Seattle Magazine the bed place to learn to dance.
People of all ages, races, and genders come together here to learn to salsa, swing, tango and lindy-hop. There are also alot of great groups that come here.
You will find me here at least once a month if not more for Drum & Bass Tuesdays. World renouned Drum & Bass DJs on a Tuesday night, I know sounds crazy right? Well its apparently been going on for the last 8 years. On any given Tuesday you will find local and (usually UK) other DJs tearing the turntables up. Be prepared for a late night as the local crowd that frequents doesn't show up until the headliner hits the stage usually at midnite. But if you get there early you can get your drink on w/ $3 wells until 11pm. Cover ranges from Free (for local djs only) to $12 for a big name.
War Room is open everyday of the week, although I've only go on Tuesdays. Went Saturday once... its hip hop, but got too trendy for me...only went once. Happy hour would be cool if I lived closer. 4 - 9pm on the top floor deck.
Check out the decor on the website. It's really nice. Dark wood, black leather cushions, dim lighting, and a red glow.
Dress Code: Jeans and a nice shirt works for hip hop night. Usually it doesn't really matter.
I'm and old guy (yes, 40 is old in the gay community - sad but true). If I want to eat a romantic meal and hold my partner's hand, we head to Thumpers. This is the last of Seattle's gay restaurants. The gay community has become so integrated that we have only one exclusively gay restaurant left.
Be wary of bars that say they serve food. In Washington, to serve a full bar you must also serve food - so many places heat up frozen chicken, toss it into a chafing dish and call it food. This is not the case at Thumpers.
The menu is decent, the prices are moderate, and the atmosphere is warm. A pleasant but smokey bar is attached.
Thumpers is also the heart of gay cabaret entertainment. Live music abounds on select nights. Reservations are good on weekends and performance nights.
Stay away from the Cadillac Grill across the street. It's horrible.
Dress Code: From jeans and a collared shirt, to suits and ties - all are appropriate.
Neighbors is and has been Seattle's most popular and long lived dance club. It's also one of the largest in the city. Many straight people come here to dance. Other clubs can be very popular, but for some reason they don't seem to stay open for more than a couple years. Somehow, neighbors has endured.
The busiest nights are, of course, Friday and Saturday night. Neighbours has a cover on Wenesday - Saturday. It's $3 - $5. You enter the main club through an alley. It's usually filled with people so it's very safe.
I used to go here when I was in my 20s. But I don't go here any more. Men in their 40s are rare here.
On Friday's, I hear there is a section of the club open for the 18 - 21 crowd.
Dress Code: Everything from jeans and Ts to the latest club wear.
This is not some exclusive club. It's for everyone. Be sober, be friendly, and you will be welcome. Of course, always carry ID. You will have to show it at the door.
R Place was my favorite place to hang out with friends for a long time. We played darts, drank beer and socialized.
The bar has three levels. The lowest level is called the Living Room. It's very casual and comfortable. The Sports Lounge is on the second level. You can play darts there. Or, there is also a small dance floor on weekends. The largest is the top level where there are pool tables. This area gets really crowded on the weekends.
The place is popular with gay men aged 21 - 40. It offers a full bar selection and even some food, though the food isn't very good. It's only offered so they can serve hard liquor (the liquor laws in WA are archaic).
It's one of the friendlier bars in Seattle - but filled with groups of buddies hanging out, so don't expect for a lone visitor to have it easy unless you are friendly and outgoing.
Dress Code: Lots of jeans and T-shirts.
This is a Seattle style levi and leather bar - which means it really isn't hardcore. Mostly its a friendly mixed place for the 25 - 45 crowd with an occasional leather vest or harness thrown in, Some women/dykes too.
Compared to a couple leather bars I've been to in Boston, this place is tame.
There is a bar, a dance area, and an outdoor patio called "The Dog Run." The dance floor is open Friday and Saturday only.
Straight people are as rare as chicken teeth here.
Dress Code: Regular guys in jeans and a white or black T feel comfortable here. Wear black shoes. Lots of facial hair and bears - definetely a masculine vibe.
Manray is best described as retro futuristic. Think of it as the gay bar Elroy Jetson would go to. The crowd is preppy or jocks. Lots of muscle and hair product.
Some people think there is too much attitude here. Maybe, but what would you expect from a crowd like this. This isn't the neighborhood tavern. Martini's are popular here, or the latest micro-brew. Burgers and sandwiches are served, but this really isn't a restaurant - its a bar.
Dress Code: The latest casual wear. Lots of designer jeans, khaki's, bright colors, and fashionable eyewear.
"Six Arms" is a Seattle outpost of the Portland based McMenamin's brewery, featuring some of the West Coast's finest barley & hops based product. Many fresh beers on tap - certainly something to please every palate. Interesting mix of drinkers - reflecting the fact that the bar is not exactly downtown and not exactly Capital Hill. Standard pub fare too. The eclectic furnishings (and strange name) are entirely appropriate here.
A good vibe, intimate club with a small dance floor and swanky bar. Every night there a music theme. My favorite is "I love Shiva", where all types of people dance together to a fusion of live musicians and a DJ spinning Bombay beats.
Dress Code: Dress nicely. Nothing too formal yet not too casual.
Sugar is now my favorite gay club in Seattle. I have ventured to a few of them w/ my good friend who is gay. If you don't mind watching hot boys dance on the bar (what girl wouldn't) and some top 40 music, then you can have some serious fun here. If you are shy of a little guy on guy making out then you should probably stay away from Capitol Hill in general. The lighting and decor reminded me of "South Beach Chic" it is a very beautiful spot. Upstairs has a seperate VIP section on one side of the building and the other 1/2 of the upstairs overlooks the dancefloor. The bar never seemed to be too crowded to get a drink in under 5 minutes. The dancefloor was packed but had tons of room. I just had a great time and will definately go back.
Be careful, they had a photographer all over the place...you may end up on their website :)
Friday was $5 cover
Dress Code: Designer casual, expensive jeans and a nice shirt, no tennis shoes. Gay guys in Seattle wear very nice clothes.
It's been around for a long time, it's mellow, and everyone is welcome - as long as you are friendly, low key, and come with another womyn (no I did not spell that wrong).
This is a place for northwest lesbians. Generally, that means liberal politics, short hair, and minimal makeup. Men are welcome as long as they are respectful. I feel most comfortable here if I go with a lesbian friend.
The bar is the most mixed area. The pool table area tends to be just for the dykes. Some of the bar food is tastier than average. It's a very relaxed low pressure environment.
I wish some of the gay men's bars would learn a thing or two from this place - including having big windows along the sidewalk. It makes the place brighter and more welcoming.
Dress Code: Whatever you damn well please.
The Rosebud is one of my favorite bars in Seattle. It's got a great atmosphere and is located in a nice area of Capitol Hill. They have a nice patio in the back for sunny days or warm nights. I love hanging out there with friends and taking in the ambience; in addition, they have good deals on drinks. Ask about the $2 drink menu. The food here is delicious too! Try the fresh salsa and chips for a great snack.
Dress Code: Come as you are.
I said I moved there when I was 21 didn't I?
I have been to so many bars and clubs in this city, it's a great city for bars. Not too many places if you like to dance but to sit, chill with friends for a drink or listen to the latest hometown band then Seattle is your town.
Best to try Capitol Hill if you want more of the variety in your clubs. You have just about everything to pick from up there and it's much more fun and safer than most other areas.
You can also try Pioneer Square. Every Friday and Saturday nights there is a cover charge of around $9 and that will get you in to about six different bars and clubs in the area. If you are younger and go to college, this is your spot. Can be unsafe at times but stick with a buddy and you will be fine.
Dress Code: All of Seattle is casual all of the time.
We hit Neighbor's infamous 80's night - a night by DJ Trent Von called "Rock Lobster". A mish-mash of attendees, one of the only straight nights (or a night that many straights attend) at this popular Capital Hill gay bar. Supposedly listed as the best night and place for straight guys and girls to hook up in Seattle. Music is always good and festivities happening. It has a reminesce to me of the old "Luvafair" that once glorified Vancouver, B.C. Rated: 5 stars out of 5.
Goth. 80s. Darkwave. Industrial. Not too crowded, excellent DJ production and enchanting ... Dark Requiem will put you in a trance. Great dancefloor and visuals/screenplay. Always have a good time. Rated 4 1/2 stars out of 5.